Patapaa’s Ex-Wife Admits to Lying to Ghanaians to Protect Her Marriage

Liha Miller, the ex-wife of Ghanaian musician Patapaa, has shared her personal experience and the painful reality of her failed marriage in a recent interview. Speaking with Zion Felix on December 16, 2024, she recounted how she tried to salvage her relationship with Patapaa, only to find that it was beyond repair. Despite her efforts, the marriage eventually ended, and she expressed that she has learned valuable lessons from the entire ordeal.

According to Liha, the decision to divorce was not one she took lightly, but it became inevitable due to the ongoing issues in their marriage. “I don’t think I did anything wrong by deciding to move on,” she explained. “The marriage was already in a very bad place, and I had to be absolutely sure before I made my decision. I had to be certain that the relationship couldn’t be fixed anymore.”

Liha shared that she had tried everything she could to mend the relationship, but it became increasingly clear that there was no way forward. She explained that she had discussed the situation with her family, and they too recognized that things had broken down irreparably. “I spoke to my family about it, and they saw that Patapaa was no longer communicating with me. They asked me how long I was going to continue pretending, and they encouraged me to stop lying about the state of our marriage,” Liha recalled.

The toll that the failing marriage took on her was evident, as she revealed how she had struggled emotionally during the period. “It wasn’t fair that Patapaa and others were tarnishing my image, especially when I had tried so hard to make the marriage work. I cried a lot during that time because I was genuinely invested in saving our relationship,” she said. Despite the emotional pain, Liha remained firm in her decision to leave, recognizing that it was the best choice for her well-being and future.

In the interview, Liha also discussed her plans for moving forward. She made it clear that she wanted to focus on her future and put the past behind her. “The court marriage happened in April, and life moves forward,” she stated. “I am still young, and I don’t have any children. I want to build a future with someone who is ready for a real relationship. I’ve accepted that there’s no way for my marriage to Patapaa to work anymore, no matter how much I tried.”

Liha acknowledged that coming to terms with the end of her marriage was a difficult process, but one that had been necessary. “It took me time to realize that the relationship was over,” she confessed. “I had to be sure, and I believe Patapaa is aware of this because we haven’t spoken in years. We had both moved on.”

She also emphasized the importance of formally closing this chapter of her life before she could move on. “Some people might say I should just forget it since the marriage was only recognized in Ghana, but I believe that in order for me to truly move forward, I need to close that chapter first,” Liha explained. “I can’t continue living two separate lives, and I want to move on with clarity and peace.”

Liha’s openness in discussing her marriage and subsequent divorce is a testament to her strength and resilience. Her decision to share her story with the public shows her desire to move on from the emotional turmoil and focus on her future. As she continues to heal and rebuild her life, Liha remains optimistic about finding a partner who is ready to commit to a stable and loving relationship.